Infinity: A Guide to Open Relationships

Infinity: A Guide to Open Relationships: is a no nonsense look at the inner workings of an open relationship. Written by JJ Beckman, one half of a real life active open relationship, it takes readers through the ups, downs, ins and outs of the open relationship model. Everything outlined in Infinity is based on Beckman's personal relationship(s) and research. It documents his successes and failures as well as obstacles that he was able to avoid. It is an unambiguously honest first hand assessment of an open relationship. The writings themselves were originally intended to be a communication medium between Beckman and his wife. In Infinity they have been presented as a framework to follow for partners interested in "opening up" or for individuals interested in joining an already established open relationship. Infinity presents readers with the necessary information to make an informed decision about open relationships. It shows the differences and benefits of being "open" in contrast to that of a "traditional" monogamous relationship. Topics discussed include passion & respect, managing, jealousy, privacy & honesty, flexibility & sacrifice, rules, safe sex and infidelity. Also, described in detail, the primary/ secondary open relationship model and the roles of those involved. Throughout, Beckman shares his personal experiences as a guide to help others open and enjoy their relationships as well as edify them on the potential dilemmas that they may encounter. Infinity is perfect for couples thinking about opening up, individuals considering a secondary role or for anyone curious about the dynamics of an open relationship lifestyle. It is a clear road map of pitfalls to avoid and joys to consider a on your path to building a beautiful and fulfilling open relationship.