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Hot, Wet, and Shaking: How I Learned to Talk about Sex (Tenth Anniversary)

Hot, Wet, and Shaking: How I Learned to Talk about Sex (Tenth Anniversary)

by Trace, Kaleigh
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Desire is holy, sex is church, and our bodies are built for pleasure and connection. These are the tenets that Kaleigh Trace lives by and which she explores in these memoirs and essays.

Hot, Wet, and Shaking chronicles Trace's journey from ignorance to bliss, from being a critically uncool teenager to a successful couple's and sex therapist, all while weaving together themes of feminism, sex positivity, and disability justice. Writing as a queer, disabled, cisgender woman, Trace lays bare the vulnerability inherent in all of our bodies, the healing intimacy that can be found in loving community, and the endless capacity for humour and play that sex can offer us. Trace laughs at her missteps, forgives herself her errors, and reassures the reader that imperfection is perfect.

Moving from the delight of learning how to orgasm to the grief of living with terminal cancer, Trace welcomes you into her world, inviting you to consider the freedom available to us all when we set aside the shaming pressure of expectation. Will this book teach you "how to talk about sex"? Yes, and then some.

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BrandInvisible Publishing
Pub dateJun 18, 2024
ISBN-101778430465
ISBN-139781778430466
LanguageEnglish
Paperback152.0 pages
Dimensions8 × 0.3 × 5 in
Weight0 lb
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