This book comes on the heels of a dissertation titled, "Elements of Self-Awareness and Its Impact on Marital Satisfaction." This contribution to the field of psychology opens up avenues of more study on how knowledge of self can impact success in one's romantic life. With over 20 years of experience studying how people develop and grow, this book brings those insights to light concerning the hinderances to finding one's soulmate. This book exposes the lies and allows a person to bring themselves to the understanding that one does not have to chase what they can attract. The author makes full use of his education and vast biblical knowledge to walk the reader through a step-by-step process to finding true love. With undergraduate work in business and a masters and doctorate in counseling and clinical psychology, he uses both disciplines of study to explain the complexities of human beings and their proper handling to meet their greatest needs. As a therapist, he discusses indirect and direct trauma and how it can cause a disruption in one's growth and outlook on suitable preparation for romantic relationship.