Goblincore is a defense against these attacks. Goblins see the futility of perfectionism. They know perfect is an abstract concept that is unmanifestable in reality.
Or dig into these stories! This collection of shinies, mostly by neurodivergent authors, use the nature around us-often the less Hallmark-card-worthy aspects of nature-to reflect what it is to be human: imperfect, conflicted and entirely loved.