The Definite Dad, an Emerging Mans Guide for Building Better Men by Being Better Dads. A book and conversation for men that pulls open the old city gate and encourages those men who either are, or will be, a dad in our current time of history, to take a critical assessment of themselves and sally forth out into the world, in order to prove their current skills, abilities and attitudes concerning the strategic position of being a Definite Dad in a culture that continues to erode the important role a man has as a dad. It will help us stand in the large "dad-gap" that has widened over recent history. It will help us to understand that we are lost, making our way through the "battle-smoke of life," with it swirling around us, keeping us from seeing the situation for what it is. And that is... a battle! A true fight for dads, and their sons today.