We all take for granted that a person going through a Divorce has no reason to feel bad or grieve. After all, it is a relief is it not - and a new beginning. Maria is here to tell you it is not so. Divorce tears parts of our soul, spirit, mind and heart in a way crueler than the physical death of a loved one. Crueler because it is not recognized that we grieve - a painful, unresolved grief. One that is not expected to show on the outside.